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What''s a Chinese wedding like?

中国人的婚礼是什么样的?

中国人的婚礼是什么样的?




【国外网民评论翻译】:

Denise
I''m German but got married to my Chinese husband in China last year. We also started the day with some door games. But I took over that task and changed them a little bit. I let them dress up as Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs, do some exercises and eat weird stuff. Then my husband had to answer 10 questions about me - which I made extra tricky. He didn''t manage to answer correctly enough, so his friends had to drink more German liquor. I didn''t want to involve money in those games since all of my friends were foreigners.

我是德国人,去年在中国嫁给了我的中国丈夫。婚礼当天先做了一些进门游戏,我对这个游戏做了一些改变。我让他们打扮成白雪公主和七个小矮人,做一些体力运动,吃一些奇怪的东西。然后我的丈夫必须回答关于我的10个比较棘手的问题。他回答得不够正确,所以他的朋友们不得不替他喝很多的德国酒。我不想在这些游戏中散发红包,因为我所有的朋友都是外国人。

Because there is no typical point in the schedule when you get married during that day, I decided to exchange rings and tell each other vows in front of everyone instead.

因为结婚那天没有特定的时间点,所以我决定在宾客面前交换戒指,互相宣读誓言。

Also, I made sure he didn''t see me in my Chinese dress before that day, we didn''t spend the night before together, and I did not change my dress that whole day. I sneaked in some of the German culture as well ;)

另外,我需要确保在结婚之前不能让他看到我穿中国裙子的样子,所以在结婚之前我们没有一起睡过,结婚那天我一整天没换过裙子。婚礼过程中,我还偷偷加入了一些德国结婚传统。



veryverygentle
Fuzhou style wedding to be exact. China is so diverse tho..

准确地说应该是福州式婚礼。中国结婚习俗很多样化。



Ivan Kova?
Interestingly enough, weddings in Croatia are almost exactly the same ... with the games and all, the cars, the money (buying access to the bride, just not with red envelopes) ... no firecrackers tho

有趣的是,克罗地亚的婚礼和这个几乎完全一样... ... 做游戏,比赛,车子,花钱(买通新娘,只是不用红包) ... ... 不过没有鞭炮



shittykittyification
Blondie, you’re officially married when you get that marriage license in China. The wedding banquet is just festivity and public announcement.

Blondie,在中国,拿到结婚证就代表正式结婚了。喜宴就是宣布我们结婚和答谢宾客的仪式。



Mike Liang
The traditional specific point are "3 bows" : first bow the the ancestor, second bow to the parents, third bow to each other". after this three bows, they are considered as offical couple.

传统的婚礼主要是“三鞠躬” : 一鞠躬敬祖上,二鞠躬敬父母,三鞠躬敬对方。三鞠躬之后,他们被官方认为是夫妻
.



Tijana M.
In Eastern and South Eastern Europe we also barricade the doors, play ridiculous games, bargain for money ?? my cousin had to pay 300€ just to open the door and then they gave him the old uncle of the bride covered in a wedding veil ??

在东欧和东南欧,我们也玩堵大门,外加其它一些傻傻的游戏,为了钱讨价还价,我的表弟花300美元,我们才给他打开大门,然后他们给了他娘家叔叔给新娘盖在身上的头纱。



Angelique Wu
This is amazing! :000

太棒了!

As a Chinese American, a Chinese person born in America, I also want to marry in accordance to Chinese tradition! :)

作为一个在美国出生的华裔美国人,我也想按照中国的传统形式结婚!:)



Alison W
It’s the same in Eastern Europe with the barricades for the grooms ??

东欧的情况也是一样,都会给新郎出一些难题



catonpillow
Wait whaat? I''m from Bulgaria and I have to say that 99% of the Chinese wedding traditions are exactly the same as the ones we have here. Pretty mind-blowing!

等等,什么? 我来自保加利亚,我不得不说99% 的中国婚礼传统和我们这里的一模一样。真是令人兴奋。



Simran Chawla
Omggg, I never knew Chinese weddings are soooooo similar to Indian weddings ?? We also have the shoe hiding custom but here the bridesmaids hide the shoes of the groom while they are taking the wedding wows in the temple and then they demand huge amounts of money to give them their shoes back. So many such customs and traditions in India with lots of food, drinking and dancing here ????

天啊,我从来不知道中国婚礼和印度婚礼有这么多相似之处,我们也有藏鞋的习俗。但是在这里,伴娘们在庙里举行婚礼时会把新郎的鞋藏起来,然后要求支付大笔的钱才把鞋还给新郎。在印度有很多这样的习俗和传统,婚礼上会有很多食物,我们一起饮酒和跳舞。

I don''t think people are aware of how similar India and China are but the more I learn about China, the more similarities I see.

我不认为人们意识到印度和中国有多么相似,但是我对中国了解得越多,我看到的相似之处就越多



Richard xu
Oh, my God. I''m liking your channel. To have such a deep understanding of Chinese folk culture

天啊,越来越喜欢你的频道了。竟然可以这么深入了解中国民间文化。



Estas Vii
I think the Baitang(拜堂) part in a Chinese wedding or Han style wedding is, to some degree, an equivalent to the "I do" part in a Western wedding.

我认为中国式婚礼或汉式婚礼中的拜堂在某种程度上相当于西方婚礼中的“我愿意”。



Jurgen Angler
Most of the southeast asian chinese or their ancestor used to be came from Fujian province and eastern Guangdong province so yes the dish had similarity with southeast asianee.

大多数东南亚华人或他们的祖先之前都来自福建省和广东省东部。所以是的,这道菜与东南亚有相似之处。



chat2stephen Oz 2stephen Oz
During a chinese ceremony wedding, the specific point in time when the bribe and groom are officially married is when they bow to each other in front of the family.

在中国的婚礼仪式上,新娘和新郎正式结婚的具体时间点是他们在家人面前互相鞠躬。



insane logic94
Gurl, let me tell you, you''ve saved my bacon! My partner''s cousin is getting married in three weeks and this is legit the video my white ass needed. (It''s also my first time meeting his family, eep!) . Thank you so much! xx

Gurl,我告诉你吧,你救了我的命!我对象的表妹三周后就要结婚了,这正是我所需要的视频。(这也是我第一次见到他的家人. 非常感谢! Xx



Shiba Inu
Hong konger here: We do the same. But here they don''t need to bow to anyone. Just both parents and serve them tea.

香港人: 我们也是这样做的。但在这里,他们不需要向任何人鞠躬,只要给父母敬茶就可以了。

And i must say, if they celebrated a traditional chinese wedding. Wearing white is a total no go, because we only wear complet white on funerals.

我必须说,如果他们举行的是传统的中国婚礼。穿白色的衣服是绝对不行的,因为我们只有在葬礼上才穿白色的衣服。



waterboy 182
You have been digging so deep ,fuding is actually a county level city

你了解的够深的呀,福鼎其实是一个县级市。



jing guo
It''s so cute. The wedding customs in Fujian and Guangdong are the most fun

好可爱,福建和广东那边的婚礼习俗是最好玩的了。



邦邦龙
The specific time of the wedding in my hometown that is serving tea to both the bride and bridegroom''s parents. When their parents take the tea from them that means the family accepts this marriage.

在我的家乡确认结婚的具体时间是给新娘和新郎的父母敬茶。当他们的父母从他们手里接过茶水时,就意味着这个家庭接受了他们的婚姻。



The Tears of Jungkook
Amy, I was meant to be going to China this year after my final exams but due to the recent outbreak I am scared I won’t be able to go, what has the news in China been saying about this virus, will they be able to contain it and get rid of it?

艾米,我本来打算今年期末考试后去中国的,但是由于最近的疫情爆发,我担心我来不了了。中国的新闻是怎么报道这种病毒的,他们能够控制它并消灭它吗?

I am really worried for everyone’s health as well!

我真的很担心大家的健康

Please stay safe Amy! Always wear a mask and try and limit your exposure outside

请注意安全,艾米! 一定要戴上口罩,尽量避免外出



You are so beautiful
And I love the way you immerse in chinese culture.

我喜欢你融入中国文化的方式



Jenya P.
Looks like a russian wedding in many ways, interesting!

在很多方面看起来像一个俄罗斯的婚礼,有趣



Robertnano
most wedding will be like what you have shown to us.

大多数婚礼和你展示给我们的都差不多。



Nicole Feldman
I love the Hello kitties & the priceless look on your face when you got to taste firecrackers. Only you??I luv it????????

我喜欢Hello kitties的公仔和当你尝试在嘴里放鞭炮时脸上的表情。唯独喜欢你



new music
this look like Iraqi wedding ????

这看起来像是伊拉克式婚礼



Yang Ro2s
Well, 谢谢 for that. I’m best man in 10 days at a wedding in Harbin. ??????????????. Little curious about ‘the games’...

好吧,谢谢你分享的视频。10天后,我将以伴郎的身份参加一场哈尔滨婚礼??. 我对“游戏”有点好奇..



Maurits Oppelaar
that second guy doing pushups is pretty hilarious

第二个人做俯卧撑的样子真是太搞笑了



rohit rai
You''re Lucky Blondie. I wish the couple a Happy Life! (Hidding shoes, jackets and blocking entrance are practised in Nepal, too. Only cash can win hearts! haha)

你是幸运的金发美女。祝这对新人生活幸福! (在尼泊尔,人们也有藏鞋子、夹克衫和堵门的习俗。只有现金才能赢得人心!哈哈)



Vincent KKC
I’m almost fall in love with you ??????when I watching your videos in China ???? you look real.. humble..pretty..not ego & pretending...which is i really like about you.. i wish I can travel around the world together with you amy...

我发现我已经爱上你了,看你发布的在中国生活的视频,你表现的很真实,很谦虚,不自大,不骄傲,这也是我喜欢你的原因。我真希望能和你一起环游世界。

The other seated guests normally just receive a simple toast from the couple when they go round thanking each table.

婚宴过程中,新人会给每一桌宾客敬酒,并说一些简单的祝酒词。

There''s no right or wrong routine...so a big YAY to variation!

婚礼习俗没有对错,

Oh, and I hope those who drunk weren''t the ones who had to drive seven hours! :D

哦,我希望那些喝醉了的人不是那些要开七个小时车的人。



Jollystr
I do have to disagree with Shady, because you absolutely can''t go to a wedding in white in rural China. It is what you wear when attending a traditional Chinese funeral.

我有点不赞同Shady的穿着,因为在中国农村,你绝对不能穿着白色衣服去参加婚礼。只有参加中国传统葬礼时才穿白色的衣服。



shan2406 shan2406
15:20 it depend on where is wedding take place, if its a 5 star hotel. you may need wearing formal dressing. as I can see this wedding is more family style.

这取决于婚礼在哪里举行,如果是五星级酒店,你可能需要穿正装。我觉得这个婚礼更像是家庭式的。



J JC
You look gorgeous in that dress

你穿那件衣服真漂亮



Al F.
I was hoping to see the full sequin outfit you had on.

我想看看你穿亮片装衣服的样子



Rebecca Tang
I love how open you are to Chinese culture

我喜欢你对中国文化的开放态度



Cydream
It seems way more fun than western wedding :D !

看起来比西式婚礼有趣多了: d



Richart Asia
Firecrackers in your mouth means you have a very ''Prosperous Mouth'' bring you wealth & luck... hahaha

在你嘴里放鞭炮,意味着你有一个非常“繁荣的嘴”,能给你带来财富和运气... 哈哈哈



lingling
That is pretty much what my wedding looked like

和我的婚礼差不多



serahiever
As a Chinese, my understanding is that the couple became officially married when they signed papers and registered at the Ministry of Civil Affairs. The wedding feasts were just ceremonies, mostly for announcing the marriage to relatives, friends and neighbors.

作为一名中国人,我的理解是,这对夫妇在民政局登记时,就被认定是正式结婚了。婚礼宴会只是举行仪式,主要是向亲戚、朋友和邻居宣布他们结婚了。



John Lu
There isn''t necessarily so much a "ceremony" that solidifies their marriage but "festivities" whose purpose is to announce the marriage to friends and relatives and celebrate with them.

没有必要举行那么多的“仪式”来巩固他们的婚姻,“庆祝活动”的目的是向朋友和亲戚宣布他们结婚了,并与他们一起庆祝

Tons of different wedding traditions exist and people can even follow the same line of tradition differently anyway.

中国有很多不同的婚礼传统,人们甚至可以以不同的方式来遵循同样的传统。



Banja 1
I''m from southwest China. Almost every wedding custom mentioned in the video is similar with ours, We do those too. ????

我来自中国西南部。 视频中提到的几乎每一个婚礼习俗都和我们的相似,我们也这样做



Ken Sun
There would also be a tea ceremony in some areas of China. This wedding is simpler than the ones I have been to

在中国的一些地区婚礼上会敬茶仪式。这场婚礼比我参加过的婚礼简单多了



Nicole Feldman
Thank you for sharing such a lovely wedding, traditions are so amazing!

感谢你们分享如此美好的婚礼,传统真是太棒了



Gerry Zhang
this girl is reallypretty

这个女孩真漂亮



US DVT
Blondie, would you like to have a Chinese culture wedding for yourself when you have find a Chinese man you love?

当你找到一个你爱的中国男人时,你愿意为自己举办一个中国传统式的婚礼吗?



Z Shao
Appreciate you for experiencing Chinese culture so deeply ??

感谢你如此深入地体验中国文化



jojes03
7:02 no video about Chinese customs or culture wouldn''t be perfect unless these few words are mentioned... ;-)

没有一个关于中国风俗或文化的视频是不完美的,除非这几个词被提到... ... ; -)



Nisong Laos
The moment you arrive in the groom''s house, especially after you bow to the heaven, the earth and the parents, you''re couple.

当你到达新郎家的那一刻,特别是在你向天地和父母鞠躬之后,你们就正式结为夫妻了



waterboy 182
You have been digging so deep ,fuding is actually a county level city

你了解的这么深,福鼎其实是一个县级市



Mingnificent Love
Wish I can be as cool as Shady ??

希望我能像 Shady 一样酷



Leon Zhang
I live in Australia right now. FUDING is very close to my hometown. It’s about 1 and half hour drive. Thank you for showing China to the Rest of the World. Sexy!

我现在住在澳大利亚。福鼎离我的家乡很近,大约一个半小时的车程。谢谢你向世界展示中国。



Ricky Chua
Usually, the couple would''ve registered as husband and wife at the local registrar of marriage office before the wedding dinner.

通常情况下,在举行婚宴之前,这对夫妇会先到当地的民政局登记结婚。



Bojian Li
love your earrings!

我喜欢你的耳环



chan lian
We lived in Fuzhou for 15 years then moved back to US 10 years ago. I miss this city.

我们在福州住了15年,10年前搬回了美国,我很想念这个城市



Mapuana Kupuna
Aloha Amy, can you report on what''s going on in China with the Corono Virus situation & are you safe? Mahalo nui loa! Sending prayers to you all over there!

你好,艾米,你能说一说中国正在发生的冠状病毒事件吗? 你安全吗? 谢谢你!向你们所有人祈祷



chhum try
The wedding was so cool

婚礼太酷了



BRICS&SCO
In Chinese wedding the husband pay everything for the wedding. For the west the wife pay...

在中国的婚礼上,丈夫为婚礼买单,而西方的婚礼则是妻子买单。



Duanquan Lin
There is a moment to anounce that they are merried when they bow to each other and their parents in the wedding. It is called 拜堂 (baitang) in Chinese.

当他们在婚礼上向对方和他们的父母鞠躬时,就可以肯定他们已经结婚了。在中国被称为拜堂。



X Z
3:52, 15:44 and more, is called huaquan (划拳), it''s a "fist guessing" game that tests your sobriety and fast response after alcohol drinking, basically if you lose one guess, you are "punished" to drink one cup, or, one sip, depending on the rules.

还有一种游戏叫做“划拳” ,是一种“猜拳”游戏,测试你喝酒后的清醒度和快速反应。基本上,如果你猜错了一次,你就会被“惩罚”喝一杯,或者喝一口,这取决于规则。



keng chen
Hey blondie, I''m going to fuzhou in a few days I''m from NY, I can refer u to a few great places

嘿,金发美女,过几天我就要去福州了。我从纽约来,你能给我介绍几个好地方吗



广东鲁锡斯基
Thought you were getting married

还以为是你要结婚了????



omni weltall
Cute wedding :)

可爱的婚礼:)

Wish them happiness

祝他们幸福



J L
Soooo materialistic. Fabulous lovely though. Love those foods. Thanks

太物质化了,但是非常可爱。我喜欢婚宴上的食物。谢谢



Liyiran Xia
12:59 that''s a really handy grater! Any clue where to get one of these?

视频12:59,真是个方便的刨丝器! 知道从哪儿能弄到这个吗?



marti an
I love these longer videos ^^

我喜欢这些时间长的视频 ^ ^



Joanna
I don''t know why...but I just love watching these wedding videos...can''t get enough of them??

不知道为什么,我就是喜欢看这种视频,感觉总看不够



simon foxbat
Yes it is reminds me of my own wedding

是的,这让我想起了我自己的婚礼



J. Y.
omg as a Chinese, this wedding looks very interesting and very different from ours (northeastern)... thank you for sharing this!!

作为一个中国人,这个婚礼看起来非常有趣,和我们(东北部)的婚礼非常不同... ... 谢谢你们分享这个!



Chaozhou Hoa
This is very south China’s tradition. Northern and central plain provinces have different traditions.

这是中国南方结婚的传统。北方和中部平原省份有不同的婚礼传统。



db
Sometimes its decided when the groom ask their brides parents for her hand and dowry ks negotiated.

有时候,当新郎向新娘父母要求将她的手和嫁妆交给他的时候,就被认为是正式结婚了。

They usually have a tea and bowing ceremony to honour the parents, ancestors, heaven and earth (gods)

他们通常还有一个敬茶和鞠躬仪式,向父母,祖先,天地(神)表示敬意

This all depends on how the family''s customs like.

这完全取决于这个家庭的风俗习惯



113 Interior Marco 1
No. It''s only official when they kowtow and served tea in front of both their parents

没有,只有在父母面前磕头喝茶才算正式结为夫妻。



Salvatore Trump
u got to change the title to "a wedding of rural people in South China"..

你得把题目改成“中国南方乡下人的婚礼”



Yili Lin
Your new makeup is beautiful:)

你的新妆很漂亮:)



Colin Barca
Beautiful Amy as always

一如既往的美丽艾米



shan2406 shan2406
7:15 thats the point. been there done that, no more thanks

视频7:15 是重点,我之前也做过,不用谢。



Allen Lau
I''ve been to a Chinese wedding myself where there were extensive barricade activities before the groom can pick up the bride in the morning, including some uncomfortable moments such as the groomsmen having to split a spaghetti noodle using their mouths only. There were also tea ceremonies where the groom and the bride offer tea to the parents and other elders later in the morning or in early afternoon....

我自己曾经参加过一个中国婚礼,在新郎早上接新娘之前,娘家人会设置大量“障碍”,包括一些令人不舒服的时刻,比如伴郎只能用嘴分意大利面条。还有敬茶仪式,新郎和新娘会在上午晚些时候或下午早些时候为父母和其他长者敬茶... ..



Cjango Freeman
I heard and tasted White Tea, Silver Needle, is the finest tea from China. Awfully expensive because it''s actually the young buds of the tea leaves when they start growing.

我听说过,也品尝过银针白茶,是中国最好的茶。价格非常昂贵,采摘的都是茶叶开始生长时的幼芽。



Christina Z
Less exposure to the crowded public at this time and make more videos in the near future!

在这个时候少接触拥挤的人群,不久的将来可以拍摄更多的视频。



Alex Poe
Amy that was wonderful ????

艾米,那真是太棒了



DannyH
This is an awesome video..! Thanks so much for posting it.

这是一个很棒的视频! 非常感谢你能分享它



2smoulder
Now I understand why Chinese weddings are so culturally important, cost so much and are planned over a very long time. Must be exhausting though for everyone concerned. Thanks for making everything so personal and interesting ????

现在我明白了为什么中国的婚礼在文化上如此重要,因为筹备婚礼花费如此巨大,而且筹划时间非常长。对于每个相关的人来说,这一定很累人。谢谢你让一切变得如此个性化和有趣。



Bob Chan
Best wishes for this lovely couple:)

给这对可爱的夫妇最好的祝福:)



chhum try
It like the fanciest wedding ever

这简直是有史以来最华丽的婚礼



SugarRay2
Hmmm...I know what this is leading up to! You''re marriage! Congrats! haha

嗯... 我知道这意味着什么了! 你们结婚了! 恭喜! 哈哈



Dennis Y
The main ceremony is the tea ceremony ??

婚礼主要的仪式是敬茶



Feng Yan
Paper before the Wedding, sure of it.

婚礼前的那张结婚证意味着双方正式结为夫妻了。



lydia wu
You are such a good video maker! Just binge-watched your videos for the past 3 hours

你是个好的视频制作者! 只要连续看你的视频3个小时就行了



TheTraveler
When will you go to a Chinese Divorce? Looking forward to that episode!

你什么时候拍一集关于中国离婚的视频 ? 期待那一集



red panda
So interesting! Thank you Blondie and thank you to the couple for allowing us to attend their wedding! Wish them a very happy life ! (And Blondie, your earrings are so pretty ! )

太有趣了!谢谢你,Blondie 。也谢谢这对夫妇让我们参加他们的婚礼!祝他们生活幸福!(Blondie ,你的耳环真漂亮!)



M Ildiko Mester
thank you for sharing this....so interesting!!!

感谢分享,非常有趣



Minnie C.
I''ve never seen anyone wearing a hoodie and sweats at a Chinese wedding in the West or Asia. Personally, I find it disrespectful. I don''t care if it''s trendy/fashionable, expensive designer street wear. You just don''t wear it for certain events like a wedding or funeral.

在西方或亚洲,我从未见过有人在中国的婚礼上穿着连帽衫、汗流浃背。就我个人而言,我觉得这很不尊重人。我不在乎这是不是流行或者时尚,或是设计师设计的昂贵的街头服装。只是在某些场合,比如婚礼或葬礼上,你不适合穿戴此类衣服。



Susana
I want to get invited to Chinese wedding now.

我现在就想被邀请参加中国人的婚礼



Nix Nimma
Now we want to see your wedding :D

现在我们想看你的婚礼。



包雷维
1:28 The food is called "瘦肉丸" in chinese

这种食物中文叫“瘦肉丸”。



KevWuu
Most Chinese wedding is like this, my parents wedding was the exact same and we’re cantonese. I’d want my wedding to be half western and half traditional lol

大多数中国人的婚礼都是这样的,和我父母的婚礼完全一样,我们是广东人。我希望我的婚礼一半是西方的,一半是中国传统的。



Square thoughts
u are amazing and the energy u bring in your vlog is outstanding

你很棒,你播客里传达的内容也很正能量。



Paul H
Fascinating, thanks!

太棒了,谢谢



Susan Li
Yes, there are a little bit differences in different provinces. Thanks ??

是的,不同的省份的结婚习俗会有一点点不同。谢谢



J Chen
Happy Spring Festival!

春节快乐



Anshul Gupta
Fan of your personality, fitness, optimism, cheerness etc etc. Keep going

喜欢你的个性、健康、乐观、快乐等等。继续保持



Lida Xu
Beware of the virus!

小心病毒



Dimule
it was amazing to watch this! Thanks!

看到这个真是太棒了! 谢谢



TheOldClass
14:25 what? It seems Shady forgot some of his culture. Of curse there is a specific time saying a new couple are married. It''s when they bow three times in front of their parents. One for sky and earth, one for their parents and one for themselves.

什么? 似乎 Shady 忘记了他的一些文化背景。当然会有一个特定的时间来说明这一对新人正式结婚了。就是他们在父母面前鞠三次躬,一鞠躬敬天地,二鞠躬敬父母,三鞠躬夫妻对拜。



ChineseBlackOlive
Wow ! So fun ! Thanks for sharing

哇! 太有趣了! 谢谢分享



Pablo E
where are all the girls? it looked like our parties in highschool lol

伴娘都在哪里? 看起来像我们高中的派对



Raymond Chang
Are you permanently staying in China? I feel like I''ve seen you there for forever!!

你要永远留在中国吗? 我有种感觉你会永远待在中国!



Brian Petersen
An excellent video!

一个很棒的视频



Liz
That looks like so much fun

看起来很有趣



Victor Liu
I swear the foods on weddings or funerals are the best I have eaten.

我发誓婚礼或葬礼上的食物是我吃过的最好的



jeffreyshowell1
I’ve been to four weddings in Harbin China. Definitely something to see. Also been to three funerals.

我在中国哈尔滨参加过四场婚礼。一定有值得一看的东西。还参加过三场葬礼

You have to get up early for them. A lot of funerals are like five or 6 o’clock in the morning.

为了参加这种场合,你必须得早起。很多葬礼都是早上五六点举行



ip desperado
firecrackers still allowed? i thought they were banned...

鞭炮还允许放吗? 我以为鞭炮是被禁止的..



WEI of the DRAGON
Where is the tea ceremony for the parents of both sides and also for the elder relatives like grandparents or uncles/aunts??

给双方父母和祖父母、叔叔阿姨等长辈敬茶的仪式在哪里?



Jim Wong
Awesome! Thanks for your video introducing Chinese traditional wedding in details!

太棒了! 感谢您的视频,详细介绍了中国传统婚礼。



Scott W
Actually these multi-wedding thing is happening with more couples having diverse background, and not only to Chinese. I am from Shanghai so you know lots of Chinese from out of town, the common sense is to have three weddings: two in each other''s hometown for families relatives and friends, another one at Shanghai for colleagues and friends.

事实上,这种举办多场婚礼的事情正在发生,越来越多的夫妇来自不同的文化背景,不仅仅是中国人。我来自上海,那里有很多来看自外地的中国人,他们一般会办三场婚礼:前两场在老家办,分别宴请亲戚和老家的朋友,最后一场宴请上海的同事和朋友。

I currently live in Montreal and one newly wed couple I know the guy is from Toulouse France and bride comes from Southern India, so they had two weddings too but decided to skip Montreal since first being already exhausted and second they don''t have too much friends here.

我目前住在蒙特利尔,有一对新婚夫妇,新浪来自法国图卢兹,新娘来自印度南部,所以他们也举行了两次婚礼,但是他们决定取消在蒙特利尔办婚礼,因为举办第一场婚礼已经很累了,举办第二场婚礼的地方他们也没有太多朋友,所以他们选择不举办第二场婚礼了。

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