如果你发现你的伴侣在发送色情短信，你会认为这是出轨吗? 这会破坏信任吗? 为什么? 为什么不会？
"Whatever babe, you know what? Ill ask reddit, and maybe you''ll chill the fuck out"
“不管是什么。宝贝，你知道吗? 我去问 reddit，也许你会冷静下来。”
Next day or at least a few hours later:
"Ok, what about Reddit? What did they say??? Let''s see it."
“好吧，那Reddit网友怎么说? ? ? 让我看看。”
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The best part is is that its a non personal issue, just a question I had after watching a show about cheating, sexting and catfishing.
I agree: its cheating.
If its a secret: its cheating.
We don''t sext, we just send each other memes.
Same, it is not a thing we do. It is odd/awkward to us.
ITT: The answer everyone already knew, but I''m guessing op didn''t want to hear.
Thank you for saying this. The first thing I thought when I read the title was "who the hell would think this isn''t cheating?".
谢谢你这么说。当我读到标题的时候，我想到的第一件事就是“谁他妈的会认为这不是背叛呀？ ” .
Or exactly what they wanted to hear, but wanted to rub in his/her cheater significant other’s face.
ITT: No shit
Alternatively, we''ll see the more well thought out, creative, and unique answers laid out in some article tomorrow.
Agreed. What a stupid question.
Should have been an AITA post instead.
原本应该是一个 AITA 的帖子。
That''s when I knew it wasn''t okay and I was going down a dangerous path so I cut communication to a minimum.
Broke up with my ex when I found out she was sexting some guy while sitting on the couch next to me.
I had a partner text the guy sitting right next to me
I hate that logic. I don''t poop next to my partner but pooping isn''t wrong.
They used the word “caught”. Which if someone was hiding a relationship from their partner regardless of how innocent it calls trust into issue.
You can choose whether or not its cheating or not but an issue of trust definitely exists.
Sounds like emotional cheating to me, and it''s hard not to physically cheat when your mind is already moving in that direction. Yes, it counts as cheating
(We’ll assume man finds woman cheating)
If you found your SO in a bar, she’s in some guys lap at a table. He’s got a hand on her thigh. He’s been buying her drinks. She’s whispering something in his ear then you walk up.
Immediately, she gets defensive and starts with something like “It’s not what it looks like!!”
当她发现你时，她立刻变得紧张起来，并开始解释“这不是看起来那样 ! ”
Sexting is the same thing, just digital. Maybe you didn’t catch them banging on the bathroom floor (It wasn’t me) but they’ve definitely crossed outside the realm of Acceptable Social Interactions.
Yes and they might head towards physical cheating...
I was with a gal who would sext in exchange for money. Personally, it didn''t bother me. What caused me to dump her is I found out she was willing and trying to hook up with other guys for money. I was instantly done.
我之前曾和一个用性来换钱女孩在一起，就我个人而言，这并不困扰我。 让我甩了她的原因是我发现她为了钱愿意和其他男人鬼混。 我马上就提出分手了。
I learned my lesson.
A friend of mine ended her otherwise great marriage (one kid in) becuase she found a romantic email to another woman. No physical cheating whatsoever, but the email was enough of a breach of trust that she couldn''t ever trust him again.
They''re now divorced and selling the family home. Cheating is cheating.
I have a “friend” who infamously cheats on his SO. It’s fascinating as he gets laid by other women more when he’s in a relationship than out.
Of course it is cheating. Just a matter of time for it to manifest itself in real life.
Absolutely. Couples have arguments over liking people’s pictures never mind sexting someone