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【中英双语】如果你发现你的伴侣在发送色情短信

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If you caught your partner "sextiang" would you consider it cheating? Would it break the trust? Why or why not?

如果你发现你的伴侣在发送色情短信,你会认为这是出轨吗? 这会破坏信任吗? 为什么? 为什么不会?

如果你发现你的伴侣在发送色情短信




【国外网民评论翻译】:

c0lby1000 1000
"Whatever babe, you know what? Ill ask reddit, and maybe you''ll chill the fuck out"

“不管是什么。宝贝,你知道吗? 我去问 reddit,也许你会冷静下来。”



_meddy_wap
Next day or at least a few hours later:

第二天或者至少几个小时后:

"Ok, what about Reddit? What did they say??? Let''s see it."

“好吧,那Reddit网友怎么说? ? ? 让我看看。”



pokey_bum_wannk Pokey bum wannk
The best part is is that its a non personal issue, just a question I had after watching a show about cheating, sexting and catfishing.

最棒的是,这不是个人问题。这是我在看完一部关于欺骗、色情短信和钓鱼的电视剧后提出的一个问题。

I agree: its cheating.

我同意: 这是出轨。

If its a secret: its cheating.

如果这是个秘密,那就是出轨。



novalou
We don''t sext, we just send each other memes.

我们不发色情短信,我们只是互相发送迷因。



ummyeaaaaaa
Same, it is not a thing we do. It is odd/awkward to us.

同样,这也不是我们平常做的事情,这对我们来说很奇怪和尴尬。



amc7262
ITT: The answer everyone already knew, but I''m guessing op didn''t want to hear.

Itt: 这个答案是显而易见的,但我猜博主就是不想听其他答案而已。



Billy_Mays_Hayes
Thank you for saying this. The first thing I thought when I read the title was "who the hell would think this isn''t cheating?".

谢谢你这么说。当我读到标题的时候,我想到的第一件事就是“谁他妈的会认为这不是背叛呀? ” .



ImperialLump
Or exactly what they wanted to hear, but wanted to rub in his/her cheater significant other’s face.

或者这正是他们想听到的,但又想在背叛者的脸上抹黑。



finelyevans17
ITT: No shit

Itt: 不是吧



nobody2000
Alternatively, we''ll see the more well thought out, creative, and unique answers laid out in some article tomorrow.

或者,我们可以在明天的某篇文章中看到更多经过深思熟虑、更有创意、更独特的回复。



WhiskyRick
Agreed. What a stupid question.

同意,这是多么愚蠢的问题。



melance
Should have been an AITA post instead.

原本应该是一个 AITA 的帖子。

That''s when I knew it wasn''t okay and I was going down a dangerous path so I cut communication to a minimum.

那时我意识到这样做是不对的,我走上了一条危险的道路,所以我尽量减少了与她的交流。



bubba4114
Broke up with my ex when I found out she was sexting some guy while sitting on the couch next to me.

当我发现我的前女友坐在我旁边的沙发上给一个男人发色情短信时,我就提出了分手。



nuclearcajun
I had a partner text the guy sitting right next to me

我的女朋友就坐在我旁边给别的男人发色情短信



zeronine
I hate that logic. I don''t poop next to my partner but pooping isn''t wrong.

我讨厌这种逻辑,我不会在我的伴侣旁边大便,但是大便也没什么不对。



sweens90
They used the word “caught”. Which if someone was hiding a relationship from their partner regardless of how innocent it calls trust into issue.

他们用了“被抓”这个词。 如果有人对他们的伴侣隐瞒了一段关系,不管这段关系有多么无辜,信任都会成为问题。

You can choose whether or not its cheating or not but an issue of trust definitely exists.

你可以选择它是否是出轨,但是信任问题肯定是存在的。



midnightjenga
Sounds like emotional cheating to me, and it''s hard not to physically cheat when your mind is already moving in that direction. Yes, it counts as cheating

我来说,这听起来像是精神出轨,而且当你的精神想要出轨时,很难不在身体上不会出轨。 是的,其实这也算是出轨



LilTugger
(We’ll assume man finds woman cheating)

(我们假设男人发现女人有外遇)

If you found your SO in a bar, she’s in some guys lap at a table. He’s got a hand on her thigh. He’s been buying her drinks. She’s whispering something in his ear then you walk up.

如果你在酒吧里看到你女朋友,发现她坐在一个男人的腿上。男人的手就放在她的大腿上,他一直在请她喝酒。 你走过去的时候你女朋友正在他耳边轻轻说着什么。

Immediately, she gets defensive and starts with something like “It’s not what it looks like!!”

当她发现你时,她立刻变得紧张起来,并开始解释“这不是看起来那样 ! ”

Sexting is the same thing, just digital. Maybe you didn’t catch them banging on the bathroom floor (It wasn’t me) but they’ve definitely crossed outside the realm of Acceptable Social Interactions.

色情短信同样是这个道理,只是数字化而已。也许你没有看到他们在浴室地板上敲打(不是我) ,但是他们绝对已经超出了的可接受社会交往范围。



princesspuppy12
Yes and they might head towards physical cheating...

是的,最终他们可能会变成身体出轨。



OneManLost
I was with a gal who would sext in exchange for money. Personally, it didn''t bother me. What caused me to dump her is I found out she was willing and trying to hook up with other guys for money. I was instantly done.

我之前曾和一个用性来换钱女孩在一起,就我个人而言,这并不困扰我。 让我甩了她的原因是我发现她为了钱愿意和其他男人鬼混。 我马上就提出分手了。

I learned my lesson.

我吸取了教训。



phatelectribe
A friend of mine ended her otherwise great marriage (one kid in) becuase she found a romantic email to another woman. No physical cheating whatsoever, but the email was enough of a breach of trust that she couldn''t ever trust him again.

我的一个朋友结束了她原本美好的婚姻(有一个孩子) ,因为她发现她丈夫给另一个女人发了一封浪漫的电子邮件。没有任何肉体上的出轨,但是这封邮件已经足够让她对她丈夫失去信任,她再也不能相信他了。

They''re now divorced and selling the family home. Cheating is cheating.

他们现在已经离婚并且卖掉了家里的房子,出轨就是出轨。



PS_FuckYouJenny
I have a “friend” who infamously cheats on his SO. It’s fascinating as he gets laid by other women more when he’s in a relationship than out.

我有一个“朋友” ,他出轨了他的女朋友。更有意思的是,当他在一段恋爱关系中时更容易和其他女人勾搭,而不是在单身的时候。



petergyurko
Of course it is cheating. Just a matter of time for it to manifest itself in real life.

这当然是出轨,她/她最终会肉体出轨,这只是时间问题。



jordan_belford5
Absolutely. Couples have arguments over liking people’s pictures never mind sexting someone

当然。情侣们会因为喜欢别人的照片而争吵,更不用说给别人发色情短信了

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