Jimmy Yangupxed Dec 26 201
First don't let anyone discourage you from dating Western women. Everyone has certain attractions to certain types. It's a common thing in Western countries for men to only prefer blondes or for women to only pursue a specific personality-type. There are many reasons why you would want to date a Western woman similar to why some Western women would want to date you. It can be curiosity about her culture her country attraction to her physical appearance etc and of course vice versa.
That being said if you're interested in dating western women you really cannot focus on the western part. She will think that you only want her because she's a Westerner. Race culture religion and ethnicity will play a role but it's not as big as you think nor should either party overplay it.
If you have an eye on a Western woman don't be shy; approach her in a fun way. Be confident in how you approach her but don't be arrogant. Be assertive but not aggressive. Start out friendly but not too friendly. While you shouldn't approach her the way you approach Chinese women (difference in culture does matter just not too much) you should approach her with confidence and be a man she would want to be around. Be funny witty clever smart polite patient etc. The generic traits of a good boyfriend and husband. And when you approach her focus on the present not on the future.
I do hope this helps. Best wishes.
Edit: Western doesn't just mean white-it also means black and Hispanic. Don't be mean to non-white girls or think that they're lesser to white girls. That's a sign that you don't deserve to date Western women.
C. Michel de Wilde Know general history of China. I am an overseas Chinese after all. Answered Dec 26 2015I think european women are more open to interracial relationship than american women because every human relationship in america seem so racialized!
and the chinese guys should really ask themselves are they really attracted to american women who are probably the most un-feminine women in the world? (please excuse my gender stereotyping here). I find european women are more feminine though.
Hong Zhang native Chinese speaker Answered Dec 25 2015Most Chinese men are different from the western men in expressing love to their sweethearts. Chinese men believe that action speaks louder than words instead of saying “I love you” they usually take actions to express love. But the condition has changed with the social development some begin to express love by saying “I love you”.
A western woman complained that "I really love my boyfriend but he is pretty much against emotional expression. He doesn't like to say those three little words that women (Western at least) oh so love to hear. He also doesn't like to give compliments (or even acknowledgments I won't be greedy) whether it's about me personally or about something that I have done in an attempt to make him happy or impress him. I just really only want to make him happy and get some feedback when I try. Or some feedback on how he truly feels about me and what he thinks about me.
”I'm very expressive. I tell him why I love him why I'm grateful to be with him and how he makes me happy. Okay I don't expect the same level of expression out of him but the basics would be nice! He maintains that he told me from the start that he is not into the mushy gushy sweet talk stuff but if it had been as bad then as it is now I would've never dated him in the first place. No flirting? No romance? No nothing? No way...
I feel like he concentrates more on the roles in the relationship and functioning as society would ideally have it as opposed to both of us as individuals (Yeah I know spare me the Confucius please). Is that really the bottom line for so many Chinese men? Have they really gotten to a point where they stop inspecting the car so long as the engine works? There's no point of delving further into the relationship to find joy in that human connection?
At the end of the day I just want someone that doesn't mind letting me know that I'm special to them. Saying what you claim that you're already feeling doesn't cost a month's salary let alone a day's. It doesn't require so much physical exertion. To him however it requires a taxing amount of mental effort and that's where we disconnect."
Lydia Townsend Graphic designer Asian pop culture fanatic uni student dweller of England Answered Aug 27 2016Looks wise I have always quite liked Asian or Chinese guys and been attracted to them. Many of my friends do not find them attractive though - which is fair enough each to their own.
I think Chinese culture is misunderstood a lot which would cause some women to be close-minded about dating a Chinese man more than a western man dating a Chinese woman would be. I find Asian men a little quiet and shy in approaching women compared to western men but in some ways this appeals to me more. As long as he is an open-minded individual that doesn't expect me to be an idle housewife I would have no problem with it.
Pri-Ya N. Chen Philosopher Yogi inventor multi skilled artist producer sells trainer : free to further develop upxed Aug 20 2012Is these an aesthetic question ? 这是一个美学问题吗？Beauty wise in china like in all other nations there are more beautiful and less beautiful people.
Beautiful Chinese are stunning.
It's a good idea to keep in mind that beauty is measured by the one who uate it and therefore may differ from one "uating" person to the other. More so there is beauty in every human being once you set your eyes and heart to see it.
If this is not the answer you been seeking kindly define "Thoughts" more specifically.